By: Lexie Schmelzer

Reverend Jackie Carter in the chapel at the Table of Hope Metropolitan Community Church in Wichita, Kansas.

Reverend Jackie Carter in the chapel at the Table of Hope Metropolitan Community Church in Wichita, Kansas.


Reverend Jackie Carter greeted us at the door of the small Table of Hope Metropolitan Community Church in Wichita, Kansas. A place founded to be a church that reaches out to "all people, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, all races and faith traditions." She stated as we got comfortable with each other in the small chapel and she started to delve into the details of one of the only fully accepting and affirming churches in Wichita. "It may not seem like a big deal, sure you're open, you're affirming, you will let me in through the doors of your church but if you refuse to validate my marriage, do you really value me?" 

Wichita is listed as the number one worst place for LGBT+ people to live in America. Having a firm spot on California's travel prohibition list - banning state funded travel to Wichita. Upon arriving we didn't immediately recognize this hostility, but as we talked to Reverend Jackie the reality of LGBT people in Wichita and the state of Kansas in general was heartbreaking. 


"My life has been threatened for being the pastor of this church." Jackie said, her eyes wandering to the light pouring in rainbow patches through the elaborate stain glass windows, coating the church in a prideful iridescent rainbow. "We've had over 110 windows shattered in our church from people throwing rocks and shooting through them. Yes, I feel threatened. I feel threatened a lot. Just last week we were doing ashes for ash Wednesday, giving them out outside of the church. My partner was scared for me, she said to me the night before, 'are you certain that you want to stand out on the street?' So we had 2 or 3 of us standing out there together, so that at least there would be someone left." 

She chuckled to herself a little, a response not expected while talking about the horrors of the reality of the LGBT community in Wichita. Safe places are not easy to find, allies are not easy to access, and getting denied from your local church is an all too common occurrence. 

"I make light of it. It's scary sometimes, but I believe that God has called me to this so, thats what i'm going to do."


Jackie works with all members of her local community. Due to the level of violence in this current society and the number of threats against this particular faith community, The Table of Hope Metropolitan Church has many members who don't even identify as LGBT. The church is a safe place for people to come, no matter what their story is, it's a place where people can go and feel loved by God again. Jackie grew up in a Baptist Church. As she grew up it became more and more apparent to her and the people around her that she was a lesbian. "I was very good at volleyball." She laughed. "The church asked me one day, wether I wanted to remain in the church or if I wanted to be a lesbian. My pastor said to me, 'You get to choose - you can either be a lesbian, or you can be a christian.' I told him that I didn't know how to change who I was, and they escorted me to the door of the church and told me to never come back."

"For too many years, LGBT people, especially the youth have been abused by faith. People have chosen to say, 'God hates ____' and fill in that blank with whatever they hate at that moment. The truth of the matter is that God is love, that God created all people. I can't imagine that God would create something only to condemn it. I have seen people that have been victims to very conservative, literal interpretations of scripture, these people being GLBT or any other reason you can think of to exclude someone. I have seen them come away from that hurt and abused to the point where they won't go to church anymore, or they don't even want to have anything to do with people of faith anymore. I believe that is one of the greatest sins that we can ever preach. God created you this way, and you have been created beautifully and magnificently. If we could get all of our young people to believe that this is exactly how God created them to be, that God loves them, I don't think we would have to struggle with nearly as many issues regarding this topic. I wouldn't have kids calling me saying 'I can't call you at night when i'm at home, so i'm going to call you during the day from the school landline, so that nobody knows i'm calling you.' or 'I watch your service at the library because I can't risk my parents knowing I watch it at home.'"

"Right after the violence first broke out at this church, when we had window after window after window being broken, a mother called me from a small town in Western Kansas. She was weeping. She told me her gay son had died, that he had killed himself last night."

Jackie paused and took a deep breath, having to wipe tears from underneath her fogging glasses. 

"Sorry, it's hard to talk about." 


"She told me that she needed to know if her son was going to be in heaven. At that very moment I knew, I knew why God put me Wichita, Kansas at this point in my life. Because in the 80's I had held AIDS patients in my arms as they died because there was no one who would affirm their love, or even their ability to be human. I was able to assure his mother, as much as anyone can in this life I suppose. I was able to articulate to her my understanding of God. God brought all of me together so that I would be able to speak to the truth as I know it and as God has revealed it to me. She has a funny sense of humor sometimes - this God of ours."